Ajnabieh - The Foreigner

Exactly--I'd like this *done*, so I can stop caring about it. I'm at the phase of my life where parenthood rights are much more important to me (in part because the spousal rights are easier to hack, whereas very little serves in place of being my child's parent). But, even for folks to whom those don't matter, I have a hard time seeing marriage as *the* issue. But it's become *the* issue, so the insult of the whole process is compounded and compounded.